Friday, May 26, 2023

7 times 77 -- snowball fights

Friday, May 26, 2023 0

oldbearnews editor

Let me set the scene:

It is winter - you leaving home walking down the street to catch a bus to go to work.


You do this all 5 working days - when suddenly there is a snow ball whizzing past your ears!!  

WHAT would you do???? 

As good Christian - I turn and smile and wave to whomever has thrown said snow ball.

Next Morning - this repeats so - another turn / wave and smile - right?! 7 x 77 - right??

Next Morning - same story - remembering 7 x 77!!  While this is getting tiresome -- there is nothing more empowering then taking the wind out of the sails of the snowball-tosser.  Letting them know they have no power over you - is indeed the most frustrating thing they can experience!!

At what time do you take a different approach??   Friday???   A Week later?? Three Weeks later???

So after a while I engage in convo - that goes along the lines of - please stop this behavior.  If not, be prepared for a return snow ball with interest - and btw 

A, I have a good aim and 

B, Just because I have chosen so far not to 'retaliate' or fight back (eg toss one in your direction) that does not mean I am a weak person - please do not underestimate this!

So - next Morning - whizz - there goes yet another snow ball!!  Naturally I am good for my word and send one back - bulls eye!! 

Cue the wailing from the other side of the street  - foul play - not fair - you rude person and all sorts of name calling and only I am allowed to - you is not allowed to etc etc.

Well guess what - tough shit - you started this and you were told  - so buttercup suck it up.  Don't want a snowball whizzing past your own ears - don't toss one in the first place!! 

It may not meet the spirit of the gospel (remember 7 x 77 - and the holding the other cheek part), though it feels good to have tossed one back - so Target / Bud-Light!! To bad for you!! 






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Intrestingly enough - I said . . . . . .

oldbearnews editor

Two written articles caught my eye:

https://www.stuff.co.nz/opinion/300889028/academics-dont-feel-free-to-air-controversial-opinions-according-to-survey

https://www.stuff.co.nz/opinion/131393894/the-free-speech-door-swings-both-ways?rm=a

They touch on things I have been saying all along for ages.

I remember discussing with my two boys a long time ago what constitutes free speech (during the saga of the NBL coach who was forced to sell his interest in the club he owned because of things he has said to his Girlfriend privately - which promptly made it into the public domain).  

I said if you are under threat of job loss or income just because you have a opinion that differs from what others think it should be - then you are not "free" to express yourself.  I did also forecast that this would lead to suppression of ideas and thoughts - and of course of being able to express these in a public way - so now some 20 years later - cue the "Cancel culture"!! The counter-point from the boys was - yeah you can say what you want and have to take the "consequences" of that - even if it means loosing your job and lively-hood!!  I countered by saying that we will end up at each others throats and eventually (Darwinian process) the stronger person will throttle the weaker person - and that is not a good way for society to live in - and I certainly would not want to be in said society!! 

 Guess what - that is exactly were we are now . . . .sadly!  Not surprisingly - now (some) of the "weaker" folks are growing a backbone to counter this to avoid getting completely steamrolled (see the Bud-light story in USA)! Can you blame them???

The underlying feature of all this is that we have moved into a faithless - self-centered - egotistical (it's all about me me me me me!!!!) society - and I will contend that as a result of that, we are all worse off for it!!  

Cancel culture can and does work both ways and some times I think that fighting fire with fire (even if wrong) is still the best way!! The left needs to learn a lesson that whatever they can do, the right can do too and -

here is where it gets peachy 

Jewish / Christian and even other religions have this theme of treating other people the way you want to be treated! That does not always work and sometimes you have to give them a dose of their own medicine! - Swallow that and lets get along with each other.

Having a bit more tolerance of others and differing opinions without getting all hot and steamy under the collar just because they differ - would be a good starting point to fix this...


snip ---- 

While diversity and tolerance are terms that are used in abundance, they’re often uncomfortable. They presuppose differences - meaningful differences. Differences which will elicit a strong response from those sitting on the other side.

But while uncomfortable, they also enable us to live in a society that doesn’t presume there is only one way to raise a child or only one view on how to live ‘the good life’.

What is clear is that if we start introducing moralistic impositions on each other, then basic freedoms, like speech, which we take for granted will disappear.


I am always wary of groups of folks who (mostly in cities and Uni's) thump their chest and say - we talked it over amongst ourselves  and we have decided that this  Issue (climate change / PC Lingo / Trans issues / abortion/ etc etc etc)  is settled now and you non-intellectuals, simplistic (fly over country folks / basket of deplorable's / uneducated nitwits etc etc etc)  just have to accept this as the 'new norm'!

My response: that's nice for you, I think differently to you - shall we have a conversation about this ???  When you say no - - then get lost - who appointed you as the bully in the sandpit!! And take your beer and  . . . .

 


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Friday, May 12, 2023

Fair enough?!?!

Friday, May 12, 2023 0

oldbearnews editor

 

 

Says it all - right?!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Saturday, May 6, 2023

Coronation Quiche - a fuzz about nuthin

Saturday, May 6, 2023 0

oldbearnews editor

Dear Lord - who would have thought!!!

It even has its own Wikipedia entry!!

 

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/food-and-drink/columnists/how-did-the-coronation-quiche-go-so-wrong/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coronation_quiche

 


Have to say - Good one, ol chucky - you have managed to outrage EVERYONE!!!!

I mean -- imagine - if he left out, say the vegans - they be outraged for being left out of the outrage!!! 

Everyone - take a deep breath and calm down! The O N LY thing that matters here is that the newly crowned King likes it.  If it is not to your liking because for whatever reason -  suck it up and get lost . . . . . Or are you really that self centered that you think everything revolves round you????   

News flash . . . . .

 It ain't . .







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