Let me set the scene:
It is winter - you leaving home walking down the street to catch a bus to go to work.
You do this all 5 working days - when suddenly there is a snow ball whizzing past your ears!!
WHAT would you do????
As good Christian - I turn and smile and wave to whomever has thrown said snow ball.
Next Morning - this repeats so - another turn / wave and smile - right?! 7 x 77 - right??
Next Morning - same story - remembering 7 x 77!! While this is getting tiresome -- there is nothing more empowering then taking the wind out of the sails of the snowball-tosser. Letting them know they have no power over you - is indeed the most frustrating thing they can experience!!
At what time do you take a different approach?? Friday??? A Week later?? Three Weeks later???
So after a while I engage in convo - that goes along the lines of - please stop this behavior. If not, be prepared for a return snow ball with interest - and btw
A, I have a good aim and
B, Just because I have chosen so far not to 'retaliate' or fight back (eg toss one in your direction) that does not mean I am a weak person - please do not underestimate this!
So - next Morning - whizz - there goes yet another snow ball!! Naturally I am good for my word and send one back - bulls eye!!
Cue the wailing from the other side of the street - foul play - not fair - you rude person and all sorts of name calling and only I am allowed to - you is not allowed to etc etc.
Well guess what - tough shit - you started this and you were told - so buttercup suck it up. Don't want a snowball whizzing past your own ears - don't toss one in the first place!!
It may not meet the spirit of the gospel (remember 7 x 77 - and the holding the other cheek part), though it feels good to have tossed one back - so Target / Bud-Light!! To bad for you!!
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